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Have you ever wondered if the stars hold the key to finding lasting relationship? While astrology is not a definitive science, it can offer valuable insights into your own personality and potential compatibility with others. By understanding the astrological placements in your birth chart and those of your partner, (even friends & family) you can gain a deeper understanding of your strengths, weaknesses, and desires in relationships.

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The Big Three: Sun, Moon, and Rising Signs

Your astrological journey begins with the “Big Three”: your Sun sign, Moon sign, and Ascendant (or rising sign). These three placements represent your core personality, emotional needs, and outward expression, respectively.

  • Sun sign:¬†This is your zodiac sign,¬†based on your birth date.¬†It reflects your overall personality,¬†ego,¬†and sense of self.
  • Moon sign:¬†This sign reveals your inner world,¬†emotions,¬†and how you seek comfort and security.
  • Ascendant:¬†This sign,¬†determined by your birth time and location,¬†shapes your first impression and how you interact with the world.

Understanding your own Big Three placements is crucial for self-awareness and can shed light on your natural tendencies in relationships. For example, a Cancer Sun sign might crave emotional intimacy and security, while a Libra Moon sign might value harmony and balance in partnerships.

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Beyond the Basics: Exploring House Placements and Planetary Aspects

While the Big Three offer a starting point, a deeper understanding of your relationship potential requires delving into your full birth chart. The twelve houses represent different areas of life, including relationships, communication, and career. Analyzing the planets residing in each house and the aspects they form with each other can provide further nuances about your relationship dynamics.

  • The Seventh House:¬†This house specifically governs partnerships and commitments.¬†Planets residing here or aspects formed to its ruler can offer clues about the type of partner you attract and the nature of your relationships.
  • Venus:¬†Known as the planet of love,¬†beauty,¬†and pleasure,¬†Venus’s placement and aspects can reveal your approach to love,¬†intimacy,¬†and values.
  • Mars:¬†Representing passion,¬†drive,¬†and assertion,¬†Mars’s influence can shed light on your sexual energy,¬†communication style,¬†and potential conflicts in relationships.

Compatibility: A Dance of Planets

By comparing your birth chart with that of a potential business or romantic partner you can gain insights into your astrological compatibility. While there’s no single recipe for a perfect match, harmonious aspects between planets can indicate potential for understanding and connection. Conversely, challenging aspects might highlight areas that require more effort and communication.

Remember: Astrology is not a magic bullet for relationships. It is a tool for self-discovery and understanding your own needs and preferences. True compatibility goes beyond just astrological alignments. It requires open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to grow together.

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Embrace the Journey:

As you explore the fascinating world of astrological relationships, remember that it’s a journey of self-discovery. By understanding your own astrological makeup and that of your partner, you can cultivate deeper connections and navigate challenges with more awareness and compassion.


It is important to remember that astrology is a complex and nuanced system. This blog post is intended for general informational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for professional astrological guidance or relationship advice.

I hope this blog post has given you a helpful introduction to using astrology to understand your relationships. If you have any questions or would like to explore your birth chart further, I recommend consulting with our astrologer Jamie Faye.